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We believe Both Parents Matter

We work for the well-being of children in separated families to ensure they have meaningful relationships with both parents, wider family and friends.

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We believe Both Parents Matter

We provide, and encourage the provision of:

guidance, support, education and assistance

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We believe Both Parents Matter

We campaign to raise awareness and address the issues and challenges facing separated families

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We believe Both Parents Matter

We promote and undertake research into the issues and challenges facing separated families

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We believe Both Parents Matter

We emphasise that children need love and care from both parents and their wider families

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We believe Both Parents Matter

Too many children grow up knowing only one parent. This must change.

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We believe Both Parents Matter

We work for the well-being of children in separated families to ensure they have meaningful relationships with both parents, wider family and friends.

Join FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We provide, and encourage the provision of:

guidance, support, education and assistance

Join FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We campaign to raise awareness and address the issues and challenges facing separated families

Join FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We promote and undertake research into the issues and challenges facing separated families

Join FNFDonate

We believe Both Parents Matter

We emphasise that children need love and care from both parents and their wider families

Join FNFDonate

 

Children Know That Both Parents Matter

Helping children and families to retain positive relationships after separation or divorce

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FNF is the leading UK charity supporting dads, mums and grandparents to have personal contact and

meaningful relationships with their children following parental separation since 1974.

We offer information, advice and support services helping parents to achieve a positive outcome for their children.

Our online Forum and our network branches also offer free guidance of solicitors and others familiar with the operation of the family courts.

Welcome to our new website. We hope you will enjoy the improved clarity, content, and the mobile-friendly responsive design.

There may be further improvements we could make, so we would greatly appreciate your feedback and suggestions.

Thank you for your support.

 

 

Children Know That Both Parents Matter

 

Helping children and families to retain positive relationships after separation or divorce

FNF is the leading UK charity supporting dads, mums and grandparents to have personal contact and

meaningful relationships with their children following parental separation since 1974.

We offer information, advice and support services helping parents to achieve a positive outcome for their children.

Our online Forum and our network of branches also offer free guidance of solicitors and others familiar with the operation of the family courts.

Welcome to our new website. We hope you will enjoy the improved clarity, content, and the mobile-friendly responsive design.

There may be further improvements we could make, so we would greatly appreciate your feedback and suggestions.

Thank you for your support.


NEW PRACTICE DIRECTION ON NON-MOLESTATION ORDERS

New ‘Practice Direction’ on Non-Molestation Orders. LINK 

 

A hearing by a senior judge, that they are being abused, was reported in the last Newsletter.  

 

Perhaps as a result, the ‘President of the Family Division of the High Court’ – in plain English, the boss of the family courts, has issued a new ‘Practice Direction’. How NMOs should be handled. Lawyers and others with a stake in deploying tactics against the other side will not want to apply it. It restricts their moves. 

 

But if you are affected, read it. And if you are, or fear you may be a target, ensure it is applied. 

 

Part I- NMOs (Non-Molestation Orders) 

A ‘Practice Direction’ is guidance from the Judiciary on how various types of issues should he handled in the family courts. There appears to be no enforcement of them. We suspect that most Judges read them. But that they have little impact, particularly in Magistrates Courts, unless the ‘Clerk’, the official whose job it is to advice magistrates on the law, draws their attention to them. Breach of them, however, can be grounds for appeal. 

‘Non-Molestation Orders’ are orders from a court that the person named must not ‘molest’ or ‘harass’ or otherwise be a nuisance to, the other person named. The terms vary but it is common that they must not go into a certain area around where they live, must not speak to, write, phone or email them. They need to be read with care, as breaches of them are criminal offences. They may be taken very literally. There have been cases of entrapment. For example, an invitation to meet, taken up, has resulted in arrest.   

There are two sorts. A ‘ex-parte’ (Latin, from one side) or ‘without notice’ hearing. An order is given without the ‘target’ even being told. This is to cover emergencies or other extreme situations. 

If so, there is supposed to be another hearing very soon where the other side can be heard. This requirement seems, often, to be blanked. The other is ‘on notice’, where the target has had a chance to answer the allegations, usually of threats or abuse.  

The orders are usually time limited, often a year. They are often used tactically. First to get legal aid for the initiating litigant. Secondly, to surprise, startle and wrong foot the other party. Thirdly, to divert the attention of subsequent hearings away from the best interests of the child towards allegations of mistreatment by the target of the other parent.  

Part 2 

‘Occupation orders’ - sometimes NMOs are accompanied by this. That the target must leave the home where the instigator lives. This can be alarming, if they are served the order as they leave work, as sometimes happens, and have nowhere to go and nothing with them except an empty lunch box. They are given less readily for this reason, but it happens. 

Congratulations to our splendid volunteer, Richard Nixon of the Crawley group, for pointing the following out. It should have been included in the PJ on NMOs. That notice of an application has to be served on the landlord of a rented property and mortgage holder of a house covered by a mortgage. More protection for a target who could otherwise find themselves instantly homeless.  

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